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Healthy Arguments: Recognizing, Defusing, and Resolving Conflicts

Build Conflict Resolution Skills with the “8 Golden Rules for Arguments”

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This training is held in German.
Arguments and conflicts are a part of everyday life. But how can you handle arguments constructively without straining relationships? In this two-day workshop, you’ll learn how conflicts arise, how to recognize them early on, and how to resolve them clearly, empathetically, and with tolerance for ambiguity. The “8 Rules to a Healthy Fight” provide you with practical tools for dealing with arguments in a healthy way. You’ll analyze your own behavioral patterns, practice de-escalating communication, and develop your own personal approach to conflict. This will help you handle tensions and disagreements in a more relaxed, confident, and effective manner.

Contents

Fundamentals of Conflict Theory: Escalation, Perception, Dynamics

  • Identify and understand the causes and escalation patterns of conflicts.
  • Break destructive patterns early on.
  • Reflect on and make use of mechanisms of perceptual distortion.
  • Open up constructive solutions.

Communication in Conflicts

  • Analyze communication processes to assess their impact in conflicts and use them strategically.
  • Reduce misunderstandings by clearly interpreting messages and actively clarifying perspectives.

Tolerance for Ambiguity: Psychological Foundations and Practical Application

  • Develop the ability to tolerate ambiguity and differing perspectives without immediately passing judgment.
  • Practice practical exercises and methods for using uncertainty constructively.

Tools for Healthy Arguments - “8 Golden Rules for Arguments”

  • Systematically apply key conflict resolution guidelines to prevent escalations.
  • Practice these rules in typical conflict situations and apply them to everyday life.

Self-regulation, perspective-taking, and metacommunication

  • Recognize and manage your own emotional reactions in order to remain capable of taking action.
  • Use metacommunication strategically to clarify relationship dynamics and reduce misunderstandings.

Developing a Culture of Constructive Debate

  • Reflect on your own conflict patterns and styles.
  • Expand your personal scope for action.
  • Actively practice dealing with conflicts in a responsible manner.
  • Strengthening our own culture of debate.

A Systemic Perspective on Conflicts in Relationships, Teams, and Organizations

  • Recognize conflicts as an expression of systemic interactions rather than attributing them to individual failure.
  • Apply systemic patterns of thinking and observation.
  • Develop sustainable and team-oriented solutions.

Learning environment

In your online learning environment, you will find useful information, downloads and extra services for this training course once you have registered.

Your benefit

  • You understand the psychological and communication-theoretical foundations of conflict. 
  • You'll learn to distinguish between objective differences of opinion and genuine conflicts. 
  • You'll strengthen your ability to tolerate ambiguity—the art of dealing with uncertainty and tension. 
  • You'll gain practical experience in identifying conflicts early on, defusing them, and resolving them constructively. 
  • You'll develop your own approach to conflict resolution and gain greater clarity, confidence, and interpersonal skills when dealing with difficult situations. 

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Methods

Keynote presentations and brief theoretical overviews, case studies, self-reflection and peer discussion, group work, role-playing, systemic visualizations, simulation exercises, mindfulness and perspective-taking exercises to foster tolerance for ambiguity, and feedback and transfer discussions.

Recommended for

Specialists, managers, project leaders, team members, and individuals in advisory or other roles who wish to enhance their conflict resolution and communication skills and further develop their personal approach to conflict resolution.

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€ 1.590,- plus VAT.
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